Stories


Prevent, Resolve, Contain: A Story of Three Brothers

Lately, I have come to believe that we in the field have been thinking way too small. We've been thinking that it was enough to resolve disputes, particularly if it is done in whatever is our way of doing that. I am now coming to see mediation as part of a broad spectrum of collaborative processes. It is now easier to appreciate that just mediating and thinking of ourselves as mediators may be limiting of the opportunities and realizations of those with whom we work. And it may also be limiting of our career opportunities. Perhaps with a slight shift in orientation, we can ...

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Gang Warfare: Mothers as Thirdsiders

We are living in the midst of a raging storm of violence. This storm takes many forms: economic injustice, violence against women, street violence, violence in the home. Violence at work and between differing groups. Violence between nations and against the earth. And that mysterious, undeflected rage we sometimes experience within, aimed simultaneously at the world and at ourselves. What are we to do, faced with this hurricane of injustice and violation? We can try to pretend this storm does not exist, huddling in our tiny boats and hoping against hope that gale-f...

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Interviews on the Third Side

Negotiating in Conflict Situations https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=22OQBri3gD4 An interview with William Ury and Thomas Hübl NPR's TED Radio Hour on Reconciliation Interview on NPR with William Ury on December 16th, 2016: How Do We Transform Conflict Into Cooperation? Listen to William's segment below. Click here for the transcript and more info. http://wu.media.s3.amazonaws.com/NPR_interview-2016.12.16.mp3 A written interview with William Ury about the Third Side Read an edited compilation of an interview with William Ury conducted by Dee Aker, ...

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Book: International Mediation in Venezuela

Published October 1st, 2011 By Jennifer McCoy and Francisco Diez See the original article >> International Mediation in Venezuela analyzes the effort of the Carter Center and the broader international community to prevent violent conflict, to reconcile a deeply divided society, and to preserve democratic processes. From their perspective as facilitators of the intervention and as representatives of the Carter Center, Jennifer McCoy and Francisco Diez present an insider account of mediation at the national and international level. ...

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The Power of the Third Side: An Interview with Pablo Lumerman

Pablo Lumerman is a dialogue and development facilitator and a community-company-government conflict mediator. Pablo holds a degree with honors in Political Science from the University of Buenos Aires. He also holds a Master’s in Local Development from the National University of General San Martín and the Autonomous University of Madrid. Source: Lindie Botha (2016). The Power of the Third Side: An Interview with Pablo Lumerman. Reflections from Practice Series No. 08 (B. Ganson, ed.). The Hague: ACCESS Facility. View the original article >>   ...

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In the News

Is War Our Biological Destiny – New York Times, November 11, 2003 Overview of the Third Side in Venezuela – By Gregory Wilpert, February 2003 (English and Spanish Versions) Mobilizing the Third Side for a Winning Alliance against Violence. Mediate.com September 2007 Communities of Peace in Colombia. www.americas.org November 2003 Helping the 'Negotiation Revolution'. DailyCamera.com December 8, 2002 Teaching About the Third Side. Conflict Management in Higher Education Report October 2002 Peace on Earth, Goodwill to All. The Communication ...

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The Third Side is everywhere

In the Family "One night, my mother and her boyfriend got into a silly argument about where they were going to go out," recounts eighteen-year-old Marquise Johnson, who had been trained as a peer mediator at school in one of Cleveland's toughest neighborhoods. "I had to sit them down. That was the hardest thing because they just stared at me when I told them to sit down. But I said, 'I'm going to help you solve this problem - could you sit down, please?' Afterward, we were all sitting there laughing. I was proud. When I finish college, I want to be a social worker or ...

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In the workplace

Torn by interdepartmental rivalries, corporate lawsuits, strikes, employee grievances, and unexpected violence, there are also signs of the Third Side at work. "When my sales representatives create conflicts, they're often over customers and territories," says Michael Rosenberg, president of a home food delivery service. He asks the quarreling salespeople to exchange customers or to work as a team. "This way," he explains, "they're forced to help each other for the good of the company, rather than worrying about protecting their own turf." Thousands of businesses and ...

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In the community

In the early 1990s, teenage violence in Boston seemed out of control. There was a shooting every day and a half, a tripling of the rate over the course of ten years. A nine-year-old boy out trick-or-treating on Halloween was killed by gang crossfire as was a teenager walking to an anti-drug meeting. Yet after more than twenty youngsters died a year from firearms in 1992, the rate fell to zero in 1996. The key, according to Boston Police Commissioner Paul Evans was "collaboration." The entire community was mobilized. The police worked closely with teachers and parents to ...

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Where is 3S Working?

These are just a few examples from different domains of how the Third Side works to head off destructive conflict. While these examples are still exceptions in our modern societies, they suggest what the Third Side could accomplish if one day it became strong and these kinds of interventions became the norm. We also invite your stories; we realize that these initial stories carry an American perspective and we would like to build a collection of stories from across the globe of the Third Side in action. Please email us at info@thirdside.org In the Family In the ...

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